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Quick Facts
| How common is genuine snooping | Rare — the vast majority of sitters have no interest in your personal spaces |
| Our personal rule | Use the space provided, close personal drawers, respect the home |
| Do we do a video walkthrough | Yes — at the start and end of every sit |
| Locked room experience | Leysin, Switzerland — locked from day one, we never thought about it |
| Best homeowner protection | Lock truly valuable items, state off-limits spaces in the welcome guide |
| Review system limitation | Theft accusations without proof risk retaliatory reviews — documentation matters |
| If theft is substantial | File a police report regardless of outcome — creates a record |
The forums and community discussions around house sitting privacy tend to focus on worst-case scenarios. The extreme Reddit post about a man who sat houses specifically to try on married women's clothing, the missing USB device, the homeowner who noticed their drawers had been rearranged. These stories exist and they are worth knowing about. They are also not representative of the typical house sitting experience.
Based on 20 sits across 12 countries with TrustedHouseSitters, here is an honest account of how sitters who actually respect the arrangement approach privacy. And what homeowners can do practically to protect themselves in the rare cases where someone does not.
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The Honest Sitter Perspective
I want to be direct about this: I have been on sits for a week, for a month, and now six months, and I have never had any interest in what is in a homeowner's drawers. Neither has Caro. The personal spaces of the people whose homes we look after are simply not relevant to us. There is nothing in a private drawer that makes the sit better, nothing that satisfies any curiosity I have, and nothing that justifies the obvious breach of respect that going through someone's personal belongings represents.
I think this is the majority position among serious sitters. The people who use house sitting platforms as a lifestyle, who build review records across multiple sits, who understand the equal exchange at the heart of the arrangement. These are not the people going through your cupboards. The sitter who snoops is almost certainly someone who does not grasp what the exchange actually is, or someone who has no respect for the people who have trusted them with their home. Both categories exist. Neither is the norm.
The practical approach is simple and does not require philosophising about it: use the space provided to you. The homeowner has given you a bedroom, a kitchen, living areas. That is your space for the duration. Everything else belongs to them. Personal drawers are personal for a reason. The homeowner's wardrobe is not yours to explore. If something is locked or explicitly stated as off-limits in the welcome guide, that boundary exists precisely because it is theirs to set.
The Locked Room in Leysin
During our Switzerland sit in Leysin, there was a locked room. We saw it was locked on the first day, and we never opened it, tried to open it, or thought about it again. It was the homeowner's private space and it was locked. That is all there is to say about it.
I mention this because the research suggests some homeowners worry that locking a room sends a negative signal to a sitter. That it implies distrust or creates awkwardness. In our experience it does neither. A locked room is simply a locked room. A sitter who is offended by a homeowner choosing to secure a private space is not a sitter whose judgment about other personal boundaries should be trusted.
Locking a room is not a statement about the individual sitter. It is a structural protection that does not require trust to be complete in order for the arrangement to work. Many experienced homeowners lock their master bedroom as a matter of course. Not because they distrust any particular sitter, but because the master bedroom is the most personal space in any home and the habit protects across every future sit without requiring a judgment call each time.
What We Actually Bring and How We Operate
Caro and I travel with very little. A small box of clothes each, laptops, basic supplies. When we arrive at a sit we place our things in the spaces provided for us and we do not rearrange the home.
This sounds obvious but it is worth stating explicitly. Some sitters. Particularly on longer sits. Treat the home as their own and make it feel that way: rearranging furniture, moving decorative items, making the space personal to themselves. This is understandable as a comfort impulse and not malicious. It is still a boundary worth being aware of. The home belongs to the homeowner. The sitter is a temporary presence. Making the space feel permanent is a form of taking more than the arrangement provides.
We do a walkthrough video at the start of every sit. A brief recording that documents the condition of each room, any existing damage or wear, the position of items. We do another at the end. If we ever moved something and cannot remember where it was, we can check. If a homeowner ever questions whether something was in a particular place, we have a record. This is not about suspicion in either direction. It is about having a contemporaneous record that protects everyone. Our house sit checkout guide covers the full departure process we use.
Practical Advice for Homeowners
The community has developed a spectrum of protective practices, ranging from structural (locking and removing) to communicative (explicit instructions). The most effective combine both.
Lock truly valuable items. Jewellery, passports, heirloom pieces, expensive tools, financial documents. Anything with significant monetary or sentimental value should be in a locked room, a safe, or removed to a trusted friend or family member's home before the sit begins. This is not about the specific sitter you have vetted. It is a general practice that removes temptation and removes the possibility of loss regardless of how honest the sitter is.
Shred personal documents. Bank statements, correspondence, anything with identifying information. Shred before a sit rather than leaving in accessible drawers. Identity theft is the most consequential potential risk from snooping and the easiest to prevent by eliminating the material.
State off-limits spaces in the welcome guide. A direct statement. "the office is private and not for sitter use" or "the locked room at the end of the hall is for storage; please leave it closed". Removes ambiguity. A sitter who truly did not know something was private cannot be expected to have respected it. Our welcome guide article covers everything a good guide should include.
Provide clear, adequate storage for the sitter. A sitter who has ample space allocated for their own belongings has no logistical reason to open the homeowner's storage. Confusion about where to put things is sometimes the benign explanation for sitters opening drawers that were not off-limits instructions. Remove that ambiguity by allocating clearly.
The video call is your primary trust assessment. Structural protections are valuable. The best indicator of a sitter's character remains the pre-sit video call. The way they discuss the arrangement, whether they ask appropriate questions, whether they seem truly interested in the pets and the sit rather than just the accommodation. Trust your instinct but supplement it with references, reviews, and the platform's verification tools.
If Something Goes Missing
This is the most practically difficult situation in house sitting because the combination of limited evidence and the platform's review mechanics makes resolution truly hard.
The review system on TrustedHouseSitters is now double-blind. Both parties submit reviews before seeing the other's, which prevents purely retaliatory responses. This is an improvement on the previous system and does allow homeowners to write an honest account without automatically triggering a counter-review written in anger. However, making an accusation of theft without proof still carries risk and rarely produces resolution.
The homeowner walkthrough. Do this before handover. Record a video walkthrough of your entire home before handing over the keys. Walk through every room, open drawers you care about, show the position of items, capture anything of value on camera. Ten minutes before the sit creates a dated evidence record that transforms "something was moved" from a disputed claim into a demonstrable fact. Without it, you have memory against a denial. With it, you have footage. This is the same habit Caro and I use as sitters. It protects both sides of the arrangement equally.
Step-by-step action plan if something goes missing:
| Action | Why it matters | |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Record or photograph what you have found — moved items, empty spaces, anything that differs from your pre-sit walkthrough | Creates a dated record to compare against your pre-sit footage |
| 2 | Check your pre-sit video walkthrough to confirm the item was present before the sit | Transforms "I think it was there" into demonstrable evidence |
| 3 | Contact the sitter directly and calmly — ask whether they saw the item or know where it might be | Gives an honest sitter the chance to help; an evasive response is itself information |
| 4 | If the sitter does not respond or is evasive, contact TrustedHouseSitters support with your evidence | Platform can flag the account, review history, and permanently ban in confirmed cases |
| 5 | If the value is significant, file a police report | Creates an official record — if this sitter has a pattern, each report strengthens the case |
| 6 | Check your home insurance policy | Your insurer is the primary financial protection. THS Home and Contents Plan is discretionary and secondary |
| 7 | Leave an honest review using the double-blind system | Warns future homeowners without triggering a purely retaliatory response — state facts, not accusations |
Our TrustedHouseSitters review system guide covers how the review mechanics work. Our house sitting insurance guide covers what the THS Home and Contents Plan actually covers and what it does not.
The Other Direction: Homeowner Privacy Violations
Privacy concerns run in both directions. While in Kefalonia we discovered outdoor camera's which we weren't sure were on or off. We received a message containing what appeared to be a screenshot from one of the camera's, (but it also could have been an older photo). This Is on the same spectrum of trust violations as the sitter who goes through drawers. The direction differs; the breach of the arrangement is equivalent.
TrustedHouseSitters policy explicitly bans undisclosed indoor cameras and requires all monitoring devices to be disclosed in the listing and welcome guide. A homeowner who monitors a sitter through undisclosed cameras is violating both platform policy and in most jurisdictions the law. Our hidden cameras guide covers what to do if a sitter discovers undisclosed surveillance.
The principle that connects both situations is the same: the house sitting arrangement is built on mutual trust and mutual respect. A sitter who goes through personal drawers is violating that trust from one direction. A homeowner who installs secret cameras is violating it from the other. The protections available to both parties. Documentation, platform reporting, legal recourse where applicable. Are the same in kind.
Conclusion
The vast majority of sitters have no interest in what is in your drawers, do not rearrange your home, and treat your private spaces with the same respect they would want their own to receive. The walkthrough video, the locked room, the explicit welcome guide instruction. These are sensible protections that do not imply distrust of any particular sitter. They are structural habits that make the arrangement work better across every sit.
For the minority of situations where something truly goes wrong: document, contact the sitter, file a police report if the value warrants it, and contact the platform. The evidence threshold for formal resolution is high. The habit of documentation, before and after every sit, is the most practical protection available.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Do house sitters go through homeowners' personal belongings?
The vast majority do not. Experienced sitters have no interest in personal drawers and treat the home with the same respect they would want their own to receive. The community cases of genuine snooping exist but are not representative of typical sitters. Structural protections. Locked rooms, removed valuables, explicit welcome guide instructions. Are sensible regardless and do not require assuming the worst of any specific sitter.
Should I lock a room in my home during a house sit?
Yes, if you have items of genuine value or sentiment stored there. A locked room creates no awkwardness with a respectful sitter. It is simply a closed space they have no reason to enter. Many experienced homeowners lock their master bedroom as a standing practice rather than a judgment about each individual sitter. Locking a room is a structural protection, not an accusation.
What should I do if something goes missing after a house sit?
Contact the sitter directly first, then file a police report if the value is significant, then notify the platform. Making a public accusation without proof risks a difficult review situation. Documentation. Walkthrough videos, photos, written records. Collected before the sit started is the most valuable evidence. Your home insurance is the primary financial protection. The THS Home and Contents Plan provides secondary discretionary coverage on Premium pet parent plans.
How does the TrustedHouseSitters review system handle theft accusations?
The double-blind review system allows honest accounts to be submitted without seeing the other party's review first. This reduces purely retaliatory responses. However, proving theft through a review system is not the same as resolving it. The platform can flag accounts and ban members in confirmed cases. For significant theft, a police report is the appropriate parallel action. The review is a warning to future homeowners; the report is the formal record.
