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| Quick Facts | |
|---|---|
| How common is this? | Genuinely rare. A sitter's presence is itself a documented deterrent, insurers in some countries even offer reduced rates for occupied homes |
| Burglary while someone is home | Roughly 27.6% of cases, per DOJ-compiled data, most break-ins still happen when a property is believed empty |
| Forceful entry | 95% of break-ins involve forceful entry, not an unlocked door someone simply walked through |
| The priority order | Yourself first, then the pet, then the property. In that order, always |
| First move if you suspect an intruder | Stay quiet, don't investigate, get to a room you can lock, and call police from there |
| When to call the homeowner | After you're safe and the situation is under control, never before calling police |
| Who covers the cost of anything stolen or damaged | Generally the homeowner's own insurance. Platform cover is discretionary, not a substitute for it |
| Documentation that actually helps afterward | Photos and videos of the home, a written list of anything missing, sent to the homeowner in writing, and a police report number |
This is not legal, security, or insurance advice. We are not police officers, security professionals, or lawyers. What follows is general guidance drawn from published safety sources and our own reasoning, not personalized instruction for your specific situation. Every home, every intruder, and every circumstance is different. Trust your own judgment in the moment above anything written here.
A break-in during a house sit is genuinely rare, and there's a real, documented reason for that: an occupied home is a proven deterrent, which is part of why house sitting exists as a security measure in the first place. But rare isn't the same as impossible, and it's worth having a real plan rather than hoping you never need one. If it happens: your safety comes first, always, ahead of the pet and ahead of the property, in that exact order. Stay quiet, don't confront anyone, get somewhere you can lock yourself in, and call the police before you call the homeowner.
A house sit means being personally responsible for someone else's home while they're not there to help make decisions. Most of what that responsibility involves is mundane, feeding schedules, plant watering, keeping the place tidy. This is the one scenario that isn't mundane, and it deserves a real, thought-through plan rather than vague hope that it won't happen. This guide walks through exactly that: how rare this genuinely is, a real documented case of it happening and being handled well, the actual step-by-step safety response, and what happens practically once everyone is safe.
We've never experienced this across 20 sits, and we hope we never do. This article exists because being genuinely prepared, not anxious, prepared, is worth more than either pretending it can't happen or worrying about it constantly.
How Rare Is This, Actually?
Genuinely rare, and there's real backing for that beyond just our own experience. A house sitter's presence is a documented deterrent to burglary. Insurers in some countries, the UK among them, offer reduced rates specifically for homeowners who use a house sitter, and many policies actually require a property to be checked regularly, or occupied, to remain valid at all if the owner is away for an extended period. The entire premise of house sitting as a security measure rests on the fact that an occupied home is a meaningfully harder target than an empty one.
That said, burglary statistics compiled from US Department of Justice figures show that a meaningful share of break-ins, roughly 27.6%, happen while someone is actually home, and 95% of break-ins involve some form of forceful entry rather than an unlocked door someone simply walked through.
A Real Case: What It Actually Looks Like When It Goes Right
A documented case from the Seattle Police Department's own blotter shows exactly what a good outcome looks like. A house sitter woke early one morning to find a stranger inside the home she was watching. She fled to another room, texted her partner about the situation rather than confronting anyone, and he called 911 on her behalf. Police arrived quickly, found forced entry at the rear of the house, and arrested the suspect, who was still inside.
Nothing about that sequence involved confrontation. She didn't investigate the noise, didn't try to handle it herself, and didn't waste time deciding what to do. She got to safety, got word out, and let the police do their job. That's the model worth remembering.
The Actual Safety Protocol
If you genuinely believe someone is in the home with you, several converging safety sources agree on the same sequence, and it's worth knowing in advance rather than trying to think it through in the moment.
| Step | What to Do | Why |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Stay quiet | Don't call out or demand to know who's there | Silence doesn't alert an intruder who likely expects an empty or sleeping house, and buys you time to think |
| 2. Don't investigate | Resist the instinct to go check the noise | You don't know if there's one person or several, or whether they're armed |
| 3. Get to a room you can lock | A bedroom, bathroom, anywhere with a working lock | A locked door is a real, physical barrier between you and an intruder |
| 4. Barricade the door if you can | Push heavy furniture against it | Adds real delay if someone tries to force entry |
| 5. Keep the lights off | Don't switch anything on while moving to safety | Helps you remain undetected while you're still exposed |
| 6. Call the police from that safe space | Keep your voice low, give your location clearly | Most break-ins resolve within roughly 10 minutes; staying hidden for that window is usually enough |
| 7. Don't try to stop anyone taking anything | Let them take what they want | Property isn't worth confronting a stranger over |
| 8. Only leave if it's genuinely safe to do so | A window or second door, away from the intruder | Only attempt this if you can do it without crossing paths with them |
This sequence is consistently echoed across multiple independent security sources, including guidance from home security providers and police-affiliated safety resources, all converging on the same core advice: stay quiet, don't confront, get to a locked space, and call for help from there.
Why This Isn't Just "Freeze and Hope"
Our own family has a real example of this working out. My sister experienced a break-in while she was home asleep; she woke, froze completely, and the people going through her house took an e-bike and some digital equipment before leaving without ever engaging with her directly.
Freezing worked for her, but it's worth being precise about why: what actually protected her wasn't stillness on its own, it was staying quiet, staying out of the intruder's way, and not doing anything to draw attention or provoke a reaction. The safety guidance above describes that same instinct in more deliberate terms, quiet, hidden, non-confrontational, rather than presenting freezing as the goal in itself. Every situation is different, and the right response depends entirely on your specific circumstances in the moment. But the underlying principle holds: don't be a hero, and don't make yourself the reason a situation escalates.
Our full house sitting safety guide covers the broader picture of staying alert and prepared throughout a sit, not just in the rare event of a break-in, and it's worth reading before your first sit rather than after something's already gone wrong.
Who to Call First, and Why It Matters
Once you're safe, call the police, not the homeowner. The police need to be moving as quickly as possible if there's any chance the situation is still active, and that call should happen before anything else. Only once you're genuinely safe and the immediate danger has passed should you call the homeowner to explain what's happened.
This isn't about the homeowner mattering less. It's about sequence: their home and belongings can be dealt with afterward. An active, unresolved safety situation can't wait.
This same sequencing principle, deal with the emergency before the logistics, comes up in a few other situations worth being familiar with too. Our guide to handling a pet emergency when the owner is unreachable covers a related scenario where knowing the right order of operations matters just as much.
What Happens With Insurance and the Platform Afterward
Once everything is safe and the police have been involved, the practical question becomes who actually covers any loss or damage. In most cases, this falls to the homeowner's own home insurance, which is the primary source of coverage for a break-in, not the platform.
It's still worth checking what TrustedHouseSitters or Nomador's own cover plans offer as a secondary layer, since some tiers include discretionary protection that could help if the homeowner's insurance falls short. But this is genuinely discretionary cover, not a guarantee, and it shouldn't be relied on as a substitute for the homeowner's own policy being in order. Our guide to what happens when a house sitter causes serious harm covers the same principle in more depth, platforms review evidence and can take action on a membership, but they don't function as an insurer or a mediator in a dispute like this.
None of this is something you, as the sitter, should have to figure out or worry about in the moment. It's a conversation for after the fact, once everyone is safe.
Our full guide to house sitting insurance covers exactly what's typically included, and what isn't, across the major platforms, worth reading before a sit rather than trying to figure it out for the first time after something's happened.
Documentation That Actually Helps
Once the immediate danger has passed and police have been involved, good documentation makes everything that follows considerably easier for the homeowner.
Take photos and video of the home's current state as soon as it's safe to do so, before anything is moved or cleaned up. Make a written list of anything you've noticed missing or disturbed, and send it to the homeowner directly, in writing, so there's a clear, timestamped record rather than a verbal account that's easy to misremember later. Get a police report number and keep it, since both insurance and any platform involvement will likely ask for it. This mirrors the same principle covered in our guide to house sitter theft and how to protect yourself, written documentation is what everything else, insurance, disputes, resolution, actually gets built on.
Have you ever had a genuine safety scare during a sit, even a false alarm? We'd like to hear how you handled it, drop it in the comments below.
If a homeowner is difficult to reach or the situation escalates into a genuine dispute afterward, our full guide to the TrustedHouseSitters dispute process covers exactly what evidence the platform expects and how that process actually works.
The Bottom Line
A break-in during a house sit is genuinely rare, and the presence of a sitter is itself part of why. But rare isn't impossible, and the sequence worth remembering is simple: your safety first, then the pet, then the property, always in that order. Stay quiet, don't confront, get somewhere safe, call the police, and only call the homeowner once everything is actually under control. Everything else, insurance, documentation, what happens with the platform, is a conversation for afterward, not something to think through while you're still in the moment.
Caro and I have completed 20 house sits across 12 countries, driven 19,000km across Europe in our 1998 VW T4, and saved over $26,500 in accommodation costs over three years of house sitting. If you're dealing with something like this or just want to talk through how to prepare, DM us @housesittersguide, we answer everyone.
Frequently Asked Questions
How common are break-ins during a house sit?
Genuinely rare. A sitter's presence is a documented deterrent to burglary, part of why house sitting is used as a security measure in the first place. Some insurers even offer reduced rates for homes with a sitter present specifically because of this.
What should I do first if I think someone has broken in while I'm there?
Stay quiet, don't investigate the noise, and get to a room you can lock or barricade. Call the police from that safe space, keeping your voice low. Only try to leave the house if you can do so without encountering the intruder.
Should I call the homeowner or the police first?
The police, always. Call the homeowner only once you're genuinely safe and the situation is under control. An active safety situation takes priority over informing the homeowner, who can be brought up to speed once the immediate danger has passed.
Who pays for anything stolen or damaged during a break-in?
Generally the homeowner's own home insurance, which is the primary coverage for this kind of loss. Platform cover plans may offer some discretionary secondary protection, but they're not a substitute for the homeowner's own policy.
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